This year, I learned to make love.\u00a0 I realize that\u2019s an odd thing to hear from the owner of a website devoted to all things sexy and romantic, so I\u2019ll allay your fears by telling you that I\u2019ve known how to fuck since I first did it at age 18.\u00a0 I\u2019m a rather passionate fucker, actually\u2026the kind who never thought she\u2019d bother being vulnerable making love.<\/p>\n
I did, in fat, begin fucking for fun.\u00a0 But making love swiftly became my curiosity.\u00a0 I wanted to know about the deep carve of vulnerability, loved the idea of a lazy day in bed with someone adored, and quite frankly envied the way those in love looked at one another.<\/p>\n
But, dear readers, I know that the majority of you are still interested in fucking, not making love.\u00a0 And so I\u2019ve joined you for a long time now, though I knew I could probably just fuck while half asleep and attempt to mimic the latest rubbish porn, fake orgasms and depression included.\u00a0 In an attempt to learn about lovemaking, I decided this year to take some lessons.<\/p>\n
After discussing my ambition with a sex coach, I was paired with a pro who was a triple-threat:\u00a0 certified as a social worker, trained as a tantric practitioner, and also a world-class massage therapist.\u00a0 Her teaching style was somewhat between Zen master and life coach, and she translated my over 20 years of fucking habits into lovemaking skills.\u00a0 By the end of my lessons, I was more emotionally available, expressing my needs and no longer lying to please others, and making love in a way that my soul has needed for too long.\u00a0 All the joy I\u2019d felt as an 18-year-old in love came flooding back.\u00a0 I was stupidly proud of myself, though a few clients who couldn\u2019t handle honesty have had to go, as I\u2019ve evolved.\u00a0 Thanks to lessons, I\u2019m in touch with my truth and bonded to those who are similarly emotionally honest.<\/p>\n
As I write this, I\u2019m on the way to see a client whose softness lures me to him again and again.\u00a0 With him, there\u2019s lots of love.\u00a0 No way I\u2019m giving him up\u2026he\u2019s one of the few who never needed teaching as I did, to share a piece of his soul with others.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
This year, I learned to make love.\u00a0 I realize that\u2019s an odd thing to hear from the owner of a website devoted to all things sexy and romantic, so I\u2019ll allay your fears by telling you that I\u2019ve known how to fuck since I first did it at age 18.\u00a0 I\u2019m a rather passionate fucker, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1138","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"yoast_head":"\n